hi Ruby, hello from taipei! how come I also write about my son (3yo) but get so limited attention... I hope to correct you on one thing: not just moms but also "some" dads really devote lots of time into parenting... I'd really love to share so many thoughts on that... so, go go go mom Ruby! ... p.s. I spent a couple of days in SH in April, it's really a fun place to go...