Hi, I am Jerica!

in #introduceyourself6 years ago (edited)

Hi everyone!
The long wait is over! So nice to have been approved at last and be part of this growing community.

For my starter post, of course, I would like you to know me well.

I am Jerica Mae San Pedro Calara before, but now, I am Jerica Mae Calara Go since I married the love of my life. Yes, you've read it right, tied the knot at the age of 19.

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Here's the thing. Growing up, I am just like an ordinary innocent kid who wants to play all day long, non-stop, mastered the game "patintero", makes a crown out of santan flower, believes that when you shout out loud to Santa Claus what you want to receive on Christmas, you will have it once you have hanged your socks on your door. I am born on May 24, 1995, Year of the Pig (I am pig literally, kidding) at Malolos, Bulacan. Been spoiled for quite sometime because I am the first born which also makes me the first grandchildren on the side of my father.

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After me comes out my sister, Jonina and our bunso, Jolo..

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Here's the exciting part or should I say the twist of my life.

I've said a while ago, I married at the age of 19. I know most of you will know why it happened too soon and for those who not, yes, I got pregnant. During that time, I was in my 3rd year college, eventually I need to stop going to school. My dad in New York did not want to talk to me because of what happened. My mom did nothing but to cry. The moment my family knew about it, they were all disappointed of me as much as I am disappointed of myself.

Months passed, January 13 of 2015, I gave birth to a healthy baby boy and named him Alexander. When I saw my son, I told myself that whatever happens in my life now, I can endure it, I can handle it, by all means.

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My Xander brought so much joy not just to me and his dad but also to the both side. The pain that my husband and I caused to our respective parents, removed by the smiles and giggles of our little one. Truly he's a blessing.

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June 2015, I had my comeback to my studies. Very lucky enough that my parents never gave up on me and had me a second chance at life.

Being a student and a mother is not a very good tandem. Sometimes I think of giving up because it's really tiring. It will drain you emotionally, physically and financially. Why did i say financially if my parents are supporting me? Yes they were supporting me of my tuition fee only. At that time, my husband only had a job then, my course was expensive, I was ashamed to ask for my parents, so I really need to budget well the money that my husband gives me. It so frustrating when I need to buy milk for our son and at the same time I have to pay for school needs. But, I would like to commend my husband, Alec, supports me all through out the way and been a good provider to our son since day 1.

However, my college days were not only full of dramas, I thank our Lord for Candice and Joymie, real friends who made math problems bearable to understand, walk with me on the corridor of our building like we were a models on a fashion show, through ups and down, thick to thin, full of laughter-kind-of-journey :D

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Working on our thesis. Thesis defended..

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and at last..

June 14, 2017, the day the Lord has made.

All the hardships, sleepless nights paid off! Wohoo! Through my determination, eagerness, and perseverance and with the help of our Lord, I am now a degree holder of Bachelor of Arts in Mass Communication Major in Broadcasting.

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Now, I am a Home-based Administration Analyst of an Australian Company and very fulfilled. :) (I'll blog my working home-based experience soon and give you some opportunities as well because sharing si caring hehe)

I would like to end my post by saying this.. all that comes into our lives, whether good or bad, serve its purpose, God has given all the trials, so that you may be able to reach where you are today.

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Hope you enjoyed reading my first blog. Thank you so much for your time.

Here's to more stories with you, guys! Cheers.

xoxo,

Jerica

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Welcome Jerica

Thank you soo much! 😊

wow kamuka ni Jaja. hahaha! Welcome to Steemit. You might think at first that you both made a mistake, but right after seeing your son, you'll realize that it isn't a mistake at all. He's an angel sent from above. Pogiiii 😁❤

Hahahaha kamuka ko ba mamsh? Lugi ako konti haha charot

Bakit nga ba kayo magkamukha??? :-)

para silang pinagbiyak na bunga dba sir red. hahaha!

Mas maganda po ako chaar hahaha

Welcome to steemit :) Ms. Beautiful :)

Thank you for the compliment, @joveanz! :)

Thank you sooo much pretty @enjieneer! <3

Great introduction @jericago. Enjoy steemit

Thank you, @travelfusion! Glad you enjoyed my first blog. 😊

Amazing story...Welcome to Steemit Jerica ....You have very cute son...agree kids are truly blessing ^_^

Thank you soo much. Yes, our kids will always be our treasure ❤️

WELCOME TO STEEMIT!!!

Thank you! :)

Welcome Jerika!
Keep STEEMING 😊

Thank you soo much sis! Moving forward! :)

You’re welcome 😊
Don’t forget to read FAQ to know more.

Welcome girl! Welcome sa steemit! Xoxo! .😘😘😘

Hi ate rubie! Thank you sooo much! mwaaa :)

Welcome to Steemit! :)

Thank you sooo much for welcoming me! 😊

Welcome to Steemit! Enjoy your stay, have fun and more experience to share. 😍😁

Xoxo
@gerel

Thank you soo much, @gerel! Appreciated soo much 😊

Welcome je! Galingan! Haha

Thank you dom! 😉

Welcome to Steemit :) You're story is really amazing, and kudos for coming out stronger. You're kid looks so so adorable, btw.

Aww, really makes me happy having read a feedback like this. Thank you soo much. Lets keep steeming! 😊❤️

Welcome Mrs GO

@surpassinggoogle is one of kindest around in steemit. You can vote him as a witness here, it would help a lot!

Thank you for a warm welcome, @surpassinggoogle! 😊

thankyou for the support Terry! ☺️❤

Welcome to the platform @jericago , God bless and enjoy steeming..

Hi jerica!! I'm really happy to hear that after your hardships, you still managed to finish college and make your parents proud. They know that the degree you got is not for you or for them but for you baby. :) I think you you got your life's lucky charm when you had baby Xander. Hehe
Welcome to steemit!! I hope you enjoy! :) would be eyeing out for your content! :)

Thank you for your kind words, @carloniere! I'll keep you posted :)

Welcomeeeeeeeeeee sizzzyyyy!!!! Magkamuka daw tayooo hahaha pumayag kna 😂😂😂 keep on blogging! See you around! Galingan mo❤️

Nice pictures and you look gorgeous.

welcome your friend steemit. hopefully smoothly and feel at home in friends steemit

I did enjoy reading your introduction blog. You have come a long way as a child then wife then mother and now steemit blogger.

You got me at working home-based :) Because that is eventually what I want to do so we can go home to the Philippines. Any pointers is really appreciated!

Very welcome Jerica

Thank you! 😉

Welcome to Steemit! Enjoy your stay, have fun and more experience to share. 😍😁

Xoxo
@gerel

Thank you soo much @gerel! :)

Welcome to Steemit Jerika. Enjoy! Let me know if there's anything we can do to help.

Such a helping hand. Thank you soo much, @steemitph! ❤️

hello, wish you a profitable journey :)

For you too, as well. 😊

Welcome to Steemit @jericago. Do enjoy all the Benefits Steemit presents.

I will! Thank you so much, @njokuoluchukwu! Such a unique username you have there. Lets keep steeming! 😊

Welcome to stemit @jericago

Thank you so much! 😊

Welcome to steemit @jericago..i enjoyed reading your story. Hope to see more of you, av a wonderful time here on steemit

I'm glad you had a good time reading my first blog. Keep posted of my blogs hehe, thank you sooo much! ❤️

Welcome to Steemit! Babies are angels from heaven indeed! Enjoy your stay!

Such a treasure! Thank you so much, @me2selah! 😊

welcome to steemit @jericago . enjoy and all the best to you.

I wish you all the best too! Thank you for your warm welcome! ❤️

Hi ! Welcome to steemit hipe youl have fun, :) good luck 👍👍

Thank you, @minerva23! :)

Welcome to Steemit! Very inspiring story of yours. At young age you make it manage your role as a mother and student that's why we're proud of you! Though I can't consent your mistake but what's important is you make it to divert the path of your life to a fulfilling life! I wish your family's happiness! We look forward to your post here! 😊😊

Thank you soo much for your kind words! Appreciated it a lot <3

hi jerica welcome to steemit world, hope you enjoy being with us! take some love with hugs!

So much love, thank you for your warm welcome!

oh dear much love too n its all my pleasure!

Followed you :)

Welcome onboard, im glad you are here and you will definitely enjoy it.

Thank you so much! Seeing these comments like yours makes me wanna blog and blog for more :)

Welcome to steemit..=)So nice to see a hapoy family together.. Keep it up Jerica..

Keep steeming! For sure you will really enjoy this platform =)

Thank you, @micch! :)

You are welcome :)

Welcome to Steemit! You have a cute son!😀 I love what you said— that everything that happens in our life serves its purpose😀

Accurate! Thank you, @clairefabella! :)

Welcome to steemit @jericago. Enjoy your stay here. Happy steeming

hello welcome to steemit. I invite you to visit my blog

hello welcome to steemit. I invite you to visit my blog

Hello Jerica welcome to the community of Steemit ❤ Great first post.
I must say that I loved your #Introduceyourself is great for me to read the "presentations" of the other new Steemians like me on this platform ... Thank you for taking the time to write about yourself, about your life and let me know a part of what you are. I hope to read more about you soon, as well as I hope you can succeed in this social network.
By the way, I want to take this opportunity to tell you that, like you, I'm also new to this platform and I made my first post, I would greatly appreciate it if you read it and if you like it, give me a vote, comment something, give me resteem or follow me, I'll do the same if you want.
Without further ado, I say goodbye. I remain attentive to your next publications. 💋
@Mjzo here to support you in what you need. Regards!

Hi @mjzo! Followed you, such a nice first post too! <3

Aaq, thanks a lot Jeri!

Welcome to this platform Jerrica..... Good luck...

Wow. You are definitely a strong woman! Keep it up :)

btw, cute baby boy :)

Thank you soo much @itsjessamae! :)

Welcome to Steemit! Wow that's a pretty comprehensive bio there. I think you'll have fun here.

Thank you @unbroken! You're kinda fix huh lol, lets keep steeming, followed you :)

what an inspiring story of yours! you never given up on life inspite of early pregnancy. it is indeed a life full of surprises! and a life changing experiences. thank you for sharing it with us. welcome to steemit!! followed and upvoted

Thank you so much for your kind words, @inshiangdee! Followed you back. Lets keep steeming. 😊

Congratulations @jericago!
Your post was mentioned in the Steemit Hit Parade for newcomers in the following category:

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I also upvoted your post to increase its reward
If you like my work to promote newcomers and give them more visibility on Steemit, feel free to vote for my witness! You can do it here or use SteemConnect

This is so nice! Thank you soo much, @arcange! Appreciated it a lot. Voted you as a witness 😊

Hey, I'm Oatmeal Joey Arnold, and lovely photos.

Welcome to Steemit @joninacalara's sis! @jericago 😄