Hi @jersdiary180703 welcome to Hive. I'm @palomap3 from Lovesniper OCD team.
I am sorry that your family suffered such hard blows in such a short time. But thanks to that, you now know how you want your sweet daughters to live their early years, and you have become their best role model. Congratulations on overcoming your difficulties in a healthy way, you have undoubtedly done a great deal of inner work. Follow your mentor's recommendations, she will have given you good guidance for starting this new path here. I wish you every success.
Tips and information as a Hive newbie here: newbie guide.
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Have a good day!