Hi @krizzybee15 welcome to Hive. I'm @palomap3 from Lovesniper OCD team.
Oh, I understand the pressure you mention about being the eldest child because I am also the eldest sister. It is inevitable that you feel more responsible, but the important thing is that you are aware of your freedom to help or not depending on what is good for you. Do not forget to put yourself first because you are the protagonist of your life. To be honest, I am confused by your large family; it seems like a soap opera, hehe. I hope you all get along well and share happy moments together. I wish you luck with your degree and hope you become a teacher soon.
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Communities you might like that are part of the OCD Communities Incubation Program. Important: read their rules and post in the one that fits your content.
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Of course I am aware of my freedom, but on the other side I have to help also my family. Well, that's my family background as of now, and I didn't expect also that I'm going to be behind since my one brother and sister already got a family. But I'm happy in my life as of now.
Thank you for your tips and information ma'am @palomap3 . I'll make some time to check the community that you have been suggested on me. Thanks for the effort, well appreciated. 💙💙💙
That’s the point, everyone has to make their own choices, trust on yourself! Enjoy the Hive journey. 🤗
Making my own choice will help me stay strong and have strength to fight for dream of my life. And I hope that dream of mine will come true. I'm really glad to enter this journey in Hive Ma'am @palomap3 .
i agree with this as an eldest also we really need to be kind and gentle with ourselves.
Cheers to all elder siblings who always had a pressure in life. May you all success in life❤