A great write-up I must say. My opinion on this is that most men are narcissists, it's just the degree that varies. What would you call a wife beater, which a lot of men are? Or the one that doesn't like the idea of the wife earning more than him? Or the one still, who doesn't like his wife mingling, all sorts. Some are just so subtle about it. Ok, what of a man who doesn't raise a finger in helping with house chores and allows the woman do it all, aside from contributing to the upkeep, because most women work in offices too. They both come back from work tired and then he picks up the remote and start watching TV, sitting so relaxed with his feet resting on a stool while the woman sweats it out in the kitchen and with the kids? At night, when she says 'no' out of fatigue, he cries out. What of the one that goes on sprees with different women, hurting the one in the home? . The first few years of a relationship, it is all good, but after then, you start seeing different shades. So my dear, most homes are just patching things up. Most men are just so difficult
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I wouldn't disagree with you one this that there are men who are just so difficult. First few years in every relationship and marriages always seem like heaven on heart. Ever morning is filled with the "I love yous" the evening with the gifts and the day time with the surprise calls to check on how the other partner is doing.
But I don't think it's only the man's fault here. There must be something that has happened along the way that has made him got tired that he now prefers to watch TV than stay in the kitchen with his wife. Maybe if we also search very well, there is a reason why he has left the kids to the wife to take care of them alone.
Those going out with other women and those bearing their wives are wild animals and I don't have anything to say concerning those ones.
I also agree on this too but it is just an ego problem. Everyone has it but way makes it much princess depend on several factors too.
Thank you for this wonderful comment. Most times it is not easy to admit our faults but when we put them out like this, it is just fo us to checkmate actions that makes our fellow human uncomfortable and miserable.
Thank you once again my friend.
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I could not agree less. The worse is that some men know how much their wives tries but would not even encourage her at least. Women not withstanding the opposition and indifferences has decided to move on with their shoulders high. Women will continue to make the huge differences.
Thank you ma.
My dear, women have evolved from the chicken-hearted, domesticated and glorified maids from way back. You said it all..... Hahaha, we hold our heads high.
Wow... very high ma. Lol.
We appreciate all your efforts (our wives) but we bring you in our home so as to make things easier for us (men)
Like my uncles wife always rant
I don't need a female house help
My sister if you can't trust your husband on ordinary house help what makes you think he gonna trust you by bringing male house help.
So it's better she Cary her cross since she don't need a helper
I'm just asking though it's not my hand writing
Well I would simply say women who say that are suffering insecurity which is not meant to be. Trust is very important in a marriage or relationship, if it is not there I don't see any reason why anybody should be there in the first Place.
Lols.... Glo, you wouldn't blame these women because a lot have had their 'sweet' husbands stray into the arms of their house maids. Especially with the randy breed we have around, one cannot be too careful, so you don't end up like the proverbial wife who got visits from the lizards for bringing home maggot-infested firewood.... Hahaha