Beautiful writeup. Sadly, a lot of people in relationships with narcicists know what they are into. They stay put believing they can change their partner. They feel if they show more love, do things exactly when the partner wants, it will soften the narcicist's emotions towards them. It usually takes a long time (a very long one) to realize this is not happening anytime soon. And hopefully, they are strong enough to walk away when they come to know the truth.
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