Everyone wants peace for himself but let the peace in other lives. If everyone is only concern with their matter then half of the problem of the world disappear. Sometimes we create the problem for ourself by overthinking and creates the bad image of the situation.
In Hindu mythology, it is said that attachment is the cause of all suffering. If we perform our work and does not concern about the outcome then only we can give our 100 percent. In real life also we expect a lot from other so we feel hurt a lot in life. If we stop expecting people to be good to us we are more then ready to face this bloody world.
You are not the outcome of ypour situation but the situations are the outcomes of your deeds.So stop amking excuse and do perform your duty with pure heart and god is there to do justuce.