Oh honey. Don't beat yourself up - no one gives us a book for this stuff. It's been a hard year for you too, so no wonder the cracks are showing.
Kids DO need boundaries - it actually helps them feel safe.
You aren't a bad parent, just a human one.
My boy is 23 and it still suprises me he is alive and a wonderful human being. One day you'll look at her and marvel at that fact too!
You are right, as well - parents need to share. It sucks feeling as if you are alone.
You should try the #homedders community as well, lots of parents in there!
@minismallholding, I think you'll like this one too x