I feel bad for you that one dopehead ruined your whole life, so here are some tips to help you next time.
How to sharpen a photo: https://digital-photography-school.com/an-introduction-to-sharpening-photos/
How to compose a photo: https://www.wikihow.com/Compose-Photos
Understanding exposure in photography: https://digital-photography-school.com/understand-exposure-in-under-10-minutes/
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