Hello Steemit's friends!
Have you found yourself in the situation of not being reciprocated in a love? You have an impossible love and you don't know what to do? Has anyone ever declared their love to you and don't know how to tell them that you don't feel the same way? I am sure that on more than one occasion you have had this thing that "whoever I want doesn't love me, and whoever I want doesn't want me doesn't like me" that happens to you, and that's because being reciprocated in love is not as easy as it may seem at first. In fact, most people have had unrequited love.
Unrequited love is simply that love that can never become love because for the magic of love to involve two people it is necessary that these people feel the same way about each other. In the case of unrequited love only one of them feels true love for the other, the other person may love it, but in a different way, as a friend, as a confidant, as a brother, and so on. It seems that we are living an epidemic of pathological love, in this way, love becomes disappointment, and illusion becomes pain. A pain that can lead to immense suffering for the person who lives it affecting their self-esteem.
This can trigger feelings such as depression, anxiety, and mood swings between depression and euphoria. It can become an obsessive feeling, can lead to psychosomatic illnesses and self-destructive behaviors.
Unrequited love can last for decades and trigger an obsessive behavior such as stalking, harassment or persecution, even psychotic pictures of extreme hostility towards the object of desire can be triggered if love is rejected. These types of behaviors can lead these people to be seen as perverted or voyeuristic. In most cases, however, unrequited love is a feeling that goes completely unnoticed by others.
My advice is that:
When you feel something important for someone, don't lengthen the situations. If you spend years and years having friendships with someone you're in love with will be harmful to you, the more time goes by the worse it will be.
You will avoid greater suffering if you have the courage to face the situation and tell her how you feel. That'll solve the problem in one fell swoop. If it's unrequited love, you won't be hooked on someone who wasn't meant for you. Someone who prevented you from looking at other people who were interested.
I hope you like this post, see you later Steemit's family!!.
