Pay attention to how he treats you
not just what he says to you.
Because the truth is, a man will say anything to keep you around... but his actions will always show how he really feels.
He might say "I love you," but love shouldn’t feel like confusion. It shouldn’t sound like silence when you're hurting or feel like distance when you just want to feel close.
Real love doesn’t ignore your emotions or make you feel like you’re asking for too much.
Anyone can say,
“I miss you,” and still not show up.
Anyone can say,
“You’re my everything,” and still treat you like an option.
Some men use sweet words like band-aids, just enough to stop you from leaving, but never enough to truly make you feel safe, seen, or secure.
But actions?
Actions never lie.
Look at how he shows up when you’re struggling.
How he listens when you speak.
How he handles conflict.
How he includes you in his life.
That’s the truth. That’s the love. Or the lack of it.
Stop making excuses for him just because he knows the right things to say.
Stop holding on to promises that never turn into effort.
If his actions make you feel ignored, unsure, or unimportant don't let his words convince you otherwise.
You don’t deserve love that keeps you guessing.
You deserve love that makes you feel certain.
Not confused.
Not anxious.
Not replaceable.
Because real love doesn’t need to be explained.
It’s consistent. It’s clear. It shows up.
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