Cheaters, what really makes them want to be with another person in secret?

in #love7 years ago

When it comes to relationships, it can be very difficult to deal with another person and get to know their ways and let them into your personal space. When you open up to someone, letting them know about you can be very hard to do. So with all of what comes with a relationship, trusting, loving, being respectful, etc. What do you think is the reason that a person feels they have to go after another and keep it a secret?

Why does it seem so hard for a person to just say " Hey, I'm into you and all and I love you but I also like to have another person and it will not just be you." Yeah, sounds a bit crazy as an expectation but what do you think is the reason for a person not being able to stay with just one person? Why do cheaters cheat? Comment below and let's hear what your thoughts are.

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cheating is a way of pushing away people who care about you - if someone wants to cheat on you and keep the relationship they are evil- i have had it happen to me and it made me sick -i am now following you in support

Thanks, yes it seems crazy the way it works, but then when the person get caught, they now want to act as if they were sorry give them another chance but then it is like why? why even do it in the first place? Never really getting an answer but it just seems crazy that this has been happening for many years to many people.

they are users and must be let go