Thank you. I resonate with what you said..
When a genuine inner work is done and the individual goes through a transformation that affects their entire energetic essence, then their whole immediate life-surroundings, and their loved ones, in particular, are changed as well. It is simple and real.
My older brother just recently got married and im happy for him. My younger brother is about to get married as well next year. Sometimes, I would have this seasonal thoughts of whether I would end up in a relationship or get married or if I would be able to meet my Soulmate/karmic partner. But I'd always remind myself to focus on the inner healing and growth that needs to be done so I can release myself from the old patterns/beliefs I had in terms of relationships/partnerships/love.
Yes, exactly that.
I know many couples who struggle within their relationships. For them, the choice was to grow within a relationship. For other people, like me, the choice was to grow in solitude, and occasional relationships.
Which is better? None. Both are great, and chosen in advance.