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RE: THE KEYS TO HAVING A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

in #marriage6 years ago (edited)

Clearly, from your post, you are well on your way to achieving that. ;-)

One more thing that helped me, and may help you, is that when my last marriage ended, I took some time to reflect on what I was looking for in a partner before I started dating again.

I sat down and wrote out the exact characteristics I was looking for in a man, which had nothing to do with the kind of car he drove, what he looked like, or the money he made, and had everything to do with the kind of person he was inside.

As an example, I wanted a man who was a spiritual seeker like myself, who was kind to animals and children, who was respectful of elders, and who respected and accepted me for who I really am.

Long story short, I forgot about it, and went on living my life. Once I started dating, and I met Marek, we connected instantly, and on a deeper level than I had ever connected with any man before him.

About three months later, I came across my list on the computer, and in reading through it, I got everything I asked for and more. We bonded over the music we both love, he brings out the best in me, and he is my biggest fan and best friend.

My prayer for you is that you find the person perfect for you, and for whom you are the perfect match, and raise your family with the same kind of unconditional acceptance, love, and respect for their individuality.

Be blessed!

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Thanks so much..
It is my prayer that i find that one.
I just followed you..

Thanks so much.. It is
My prayer that i find that one.
I just followed you..

                 - hermannsol


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This haiku bot is really getting on my nerves.

LOL - I can relate. ;-)
Have a great week, @hermannsol!

You too @crescendoofpeace.
And I love your name.

Thanks!

It's actually a name my husband came up for a property we used to visit in Florida, so when we bought our current place, the name stuck. ;-)

And it is, after all, what we are trying to create in our world . . . a crescendo of peace, to bring peace to all corners of the planet.