This would be a lot easier if women actually looked at themselves.
Then their duplicitous messages could be understood, however, women also like to be coy, to conceal their true intentions. To be the gender that is not understood.
What men do not realize is that for 80% of men, If you are not the top 20%, the alpha studs, then you are not supposed to talk to women sexually, at all, ever.
If a woman approaches you, sometime just before she becomes barren, then do not think she finally sees you as the good solid man that you are. You are there only to support her children for the rest of your life. (They may actually be created with your genes, but there is no guarantee) So, expect to pay for the rest of your life, along with a strong possibility of being thrown out of the house when the children reach the age of five. (when the children need a dad)
It is helpful for these beta men to understand that in her mind, she has settled. And that she is pretending to love you. She is pretending to enjoy sex. Although women are very good at this... hey, you only have to lay there, there comes a point where she can no longer stand the pretending and the "having settled" gets to her, at this point, she really hates you, despises you, loathes you.
If you are in the top 20% of men, do whatever you want. Women will make allowances. They will get on their knees. They will beg. They will try to climb through your window. Anything you do is ok by them, as long as they get a chance.
Very well put.
Holy shit man, I sure hope I'm an Alpha! Is there a test I can take or is the fact that I have to ask the test?
Well, can you go to the bar, night club, hang out, and go home with a girl? (and not speaking of desperate women)
Basically, 20% of the men are getting 80% of the sex.
If you are trying to please a woman to stay with you: you are beta.
If you have several women you can call on at any time: you are alpha.
There are two very different worlds.
One group that hopes they will get laid
and another that knows they will get laid whenever they want to.
You listen to people from both groups, and you get two very different views of women.
And yes, you can up your game to appear alpha. Takes practice and working out, and starting from a point that is not dog ugly.
Jesus. By the way. It is you that are the problem. How about YOU get on your knees. We are sick of this shit.
I am just reporting what women have done. And not in small numbers. So, if you are sick of this shit, talk to them.
unfortunately this is how some women deal with their feelings of powerlessness in society. I am not sure the statistics though. I am very confident that most of the women on this platform are NOT this way because by default most of the women here are intellectuals that have learned about crypto and or artists that see the world in a weird non-traditional way. But yes, there are many women that fit this role and its their choice to do so. As I try to give "all men" the benifit and see them different than the "some" who are overtly mysoginist--- i hope that all men do the same for me even though i am feminist and often quite dramatic when offended, lol.
We are all complex and yet not of us have these statistics that should be reported. MY experience is circumstantial as yours appears to be.
I'm sorry you had these bad experiences. i hope you find true love respect for a woman who sees you not as alpha or beta but human.
I thank you for your kind words.
I was just trying to educate people that there are two classes of men out there. One of those has every woman after them, and the other are invisible to women.
With that, you can see how women, in general, say they want a nice guy, but always go after the bad boys. It is really that they want the bad boys to be nice. The guys they don't find attractive (the other group), being nice usually puts them in the category of being creepy.
I am a very nice guy.
There ate no classes. All men are individuals plagued by flawed common ideology base on their geographical up ringing. That i can say as fact.
Also -- a thought-- perhaps we have our own perspectives about the sociological details of dating and perhaps we dont need to be educated that a karge portion of earth is stupid and superficial. Lol. Perhaps also you can learn or listen ? Becuase the way i deal with men and mang women i know? You are not correct.