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RE: Playing Chess With Pigeons - An Important Lesson For You Don't Lose Your Precious Time With People With Specific Characteristics Simple For Us Identify ....

in #mindset6 years ago

But what if these people are your family members? You still need to talk to them and share with them the positive vibes in hopes that one day they will also do the same.

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Hi vincy,
No matter how close the person is to you, and they see that you are genuine about it, and really meant it,
they would adjust.
Make them understand that some privileges you grant to them can be taken away if they don't adjust
Regards

Easier said than done but thanks for the thoughts.

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Exactly! friend

In other words like its in the cheese game you have to Find ways how to solve and get a solution to overcome them thus through moving in through different area for help.and at the end you will end up conquering you challenge.

Exactly friend! Welcome

I understand what you mean but unfortunately my experience has shown that there is a time for us to change the mindset of these people, but as I said unfortunately it is the minority of the people that we have succeeded. I also understand that a lot of these people are familiar but you have to know how to set your limit. You can not allow your life to pass and instead of taking care of yourself you end up going to the hole with the person. But each one is free to establish this time and give a stop.

You are so correct! Family sometimes provide the tallest hurdles as we sometimes believe they are entitled to demand more from us. I learned early on in my life, both personal and professional, that it is best to steer your own path as you cannot help if you don't put yourself in a position to succeed.

I was going to ask the same, hahaha .... and if they are family ?? !!!