My heart goes out to you @tiandao. But you were so good at staying centered during these very challenging times. I am so proud of you and admire the way you took things in stride. I know it is not easy. I go through challenges almost everyday, despite my efforts to be positive and calm. I guess because we are A+ students our homework is the hardest!!! So much for trying to be so good.
I am glad that your AC is working now. I can't imagine how hot it is there in Arizona. Hawaii has also been very hot and it is miserable here too. Sometimes it get so hot that you can't do much. Because of global warming, the earth's temperature is rising so the weather patterns are getting more extreme.
It is unfortunate that your fiance's children are being used to irritate you both. That is bad on the ex's girlfriend's part. As karma will go, eventually she may regret her actions. I have no advice but to just say it hurts the children the most. You guys will have to keep up the good communication with them so that they know that they did not do anything wrong. They are the most impressionable.
Wishing you cooler days and nights, a well functioning AC unit and much peace and happiness. Keep being positive and better days will eventually come. I know how hard you are trying. Please take care tiandao! .....Cabbagepatch :D
Thank you my friend for your kind words, in these trying time. Man I can't imagine the kind of heat you are in! It is also humid in Hawaii, and that is heat on a hole new level :0. I love the A+ student part, I never thought of it that way, thank you very much for that analogy. I wish the girlfriend of the kids father, would find peace. I too believe her karma might hit hard, and I don't want that for anyone. I know how it feels when karma hits hard, and I will never wish that on even on an enemy if I had one. I will keep your wise word in mind when talking with the kids and let my fiancee know about communicating that they have done nothing wrong. Thank you again for such a wonderful response, it always up lifts my spirits! Good Day Cabbagepatch!
I hope you are doing well. I just wanted to check in to see how you are doing since you haven't posted for a long time. I truly hope nothing is happening to you. My thoughts are with you @tiandao.
I am ok, I just am getting ready to move. Thank you for checking on me though, I really appreciate that! I hope you are doing well your self.