This line made this whole post all the more relatable for me...
(Not always, but it is my goal)
I also have to confess that I have lost sleep over Haejin and what he does for this site for a while then got over it. Like I did over the trending page after seeing greed is what drives many there. Now I settle for good posts like this one and build this community as much as I can :)
The Haejin issue got under a lot of people's skin. :) In my opinion he is a big stake holder's issue, if he is an issue at all.