Excellent creativity boss, a man whose spiritual intellectual is not stable is still a kid, because religion help a lot, but spiritual understanding is a vital key that make you a human and not only a man. when you have this, it's hard to critisize or discriminate. Also, if you don't give out excuses in your mind, to people who misbehaves always, your maturity need some rehabilitations. when they hurt you, give out some excuses,maybe this will surpress your aggressiveness towards them.