It is totally normal to face obstacles in your life and in your way to success , but being afraid of moving forward is worst than that . Because ,the problem is just in your head, just keep thinking a lot will lead you to do nothing and this happens to you when you allow the negative thoughts to control you then you miss great opportunities that you will regret them .
Most of us have already been in the situation where feeling not confident or brave enough to make a change .
So we prefer to stay in our comfort zone rather than moving forward and succeeding .
This type of fear called fear of failure , which is quiting before even starting , preferring not to try anything at all.
Most of the time this fear is related to low self-esteem , not believing in ourselves and having always negative probabilities like I am not good enough “” I can‘t do it “…..
As humans , we are always scared of uncertainty , scared of the unpredictable future , because we cannot predict what is going to happen next , se we decide not to do anything to let everything as it is .
The other type of fear that we will talk about , its charachtersics are almost the same as the fear of failure but the difference is working hard and afraid of not being able to handle the success , so the person decides to stop at that point .
People that suffer from this fear , don’t want to be in the spotlight and not to turn into something that they don’t want to , because of having an idea that successful people are obsessed with money and they don’t appreciate a lot of things like the presence of their families also they don’t have time to do what they used to do ….. So they don’t want anything to change they just want to live a normal life as they used to .
But to achieve our goals we do really need to overcome these two fears , I know that there are many types of fear but these two sound normal but they are dangerous if we don’t find quickly a way to overcome them
So in the next post we will talk about tips to overcome fear .