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RE: Speaking To Heal, Not To Hurt: Mastering The Art Of Communicating Constructively

in #motivation5 months ago

Yes. Many breakups, the partner's involved are looking for ways to get back together, yet, they are still face with the using of this, 'not so good choice of words.

The deal is, most of them don't know that the way they speak is wrong, I have a friend like that, he speak anyhow, and anybody that met him will be feeling bad, unless it getting to a certain stage, the person will understand that it is how he speak, but I always educate him to mind what he says, and I am happy he is following up gradually.

But speaking more on the area of partners, I think they will find it very hard to come back together, when the two people in the relationship can't speak in good manners, but in a way to annoying. The deal is, happiness will not be much within them, as will just be hurting themselves with their word's of mouth.

And we know that, it can be hard to stay without saying a thing.

You see, it is powerful in there, the words we speak out are powerful, so we need to speak happy words and not words that will hurt somebody, or make them feels sad.

Personally, I do not just construct a sentence out of my mouth, without carefully thinking what that word's will do to the person.

The deal is just as you have said, anything we say can't he neutral, it must surely have a stand, and in that case, do something to the person, either good or bad.

So, we should be always watchful of what we speak, it's not only when we are the fighters, but we should be aware that, wrongly used of the words we speak can as well cause a fight between people.

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Well said. We should be cautious and watchful of what we say, so as not to hurt with our words.
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