anyone can argue anything but you won this with the first point- the heart. There is no trauma quite like the breaking of romantic bonds, from what I can remember ; ) That the emotional guidance system and physical chemicals bond two people, at least for a time, must count for something... after that we just have to live with the constant cross evaluation, its healthy
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Thing is, I have a different opinion, but I've also experienced heartbreak. It is actually possible to be polyamorous, and experience heartbreak. Actually, you are setting yourself up for potential of much more heartbreak, then when you are monogamous.
But also, you are setting yourself for a lot more interesting, meaningful and nice relationships, that have lower heartbreak chance overal.
Why? Because polyamory is first of all not about banging people left and right. It is about ethical relationships. A good idea for non polyamorous people would be to take a look, and perhaps borrow that page from polyplaybook. It might make your relationship happier overall.