**Causes of divorce in marriages**
1) When couples become too comfortable
People put in their best especially when dating their partners but all of a sudden, they are married and they stop what actually attracted them to their partners in the first place. For example, a woman who dresses beautifully and classy when dating her man don't do so again because she's now married. A man who professes love to his woman once in a while or often, becomes so cold all of a sudden. Distance begins to happen and ego won't let them sort things out which the end result might be a divorce.
**Too proud to apologise**
Pride is indeed evil. The word I am sorry is a mighty word that can heal. Most couples find it difficult to apologise for their wrongs. Everyone wants to claim right. Grudges keeps pilling up, unhappiness begins to creep in and before you know it, distance is been created and might lead to divorce if care is taken.
**When you are not growing with your spouse**
People take this for granted but it's very important. If you are growing and pursuing carreer, carry your partner along. If you are enrolling for a PhD, make sure your partner is levelling up somehow with you because there would be a level one would get to and with the exposure he/she has gotten from studying, traveling which his partner might not fit in anymore. Feelings of "he/she not been your class might creep in. Ensure to carry your spouse Along when it comes to growth and development in sensitive aspects of life.
**Sharing Private matters to outsiders**
There is nothing that destroys a marriage so quickly like gossips. Be courageous enough to handle certain sensitive matters with your partner, psychologist or someone who you can really trust and not just anyone because at the end of the day, not everyone is listening to actually help out but destroy.
**Self centered**
Marriage is all about sacrifice. It won't be fair doing everything for someone who doesn't care about you at all. Couples should learn to assist and help out their partners and not always ask. Let it be mutual and things will surely work smoothly, no one would feel cheated nor neglected. By so, peace would rain and the family will be together.