first of all im very sorry for such trauma you went through after the rape. i will like to let you know that your case isnt the first and i feel so disheartened each time i hear about the case of rape.it has become a societal menace that some unreasonable people has imbibe and its really affecting our young ladies around the globe. if your fiance is aware of your virginity there is no point hiding under one finger because its is safe to change plan while at sea that to set sail and sink at sea.if you refuse to tell him now,he will eventually know as time goes on and it will be too late to convince him that you were raped. you need to come out plane at the right time and you must make sure you give him reasons to believe truly that you were raped. more importantly, you dont need to hide this from your parent.if there is any of them you are close to,let them know what youve been through for action to be taken against the rapist if he/they can be located.if this action is taken, it will be a plus for you to state the matter to your fiance and the fact that your parent knows about it will make him believe you wholeheartedly if he truly loves and trust you. please dont forget to visit the hospital to flush yourself and do some test to stay free from whatever they might have passed through the unprotected sex. i believe if you can do all this, your fiance will find reason to believe you and stay by your side.
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