I believe Love at first sight is there
First sight love is often an attraction and is believed to have its own power. But love at first sight does not have a strong foundation because it is only a category of Lust Love or crazy. A relationship that is driven by an external attraction and has a strong atmosphere of sexual desire. Meanwhile, emotional intimacy and commitment did not exist or did not exist at the time.
Commitment is born from a decision-making process to decide consciously and deliberately that he is willing to maintain a relationship to be lasting or long-term. While Love First View does not pass through a conscious and deliberate decision-making process. Love First View is spontaneous and reflexive, with no thought in mind, no rationality at all. In other words, Love First View does not have a commitment component at all.
Love First View is generally in the form of physical attraction. Interested in his face: beautiful, sweet, handsome, ethnic face, or on the shape and color of the eyeball, the shape of the nose, lips, forehead, chin, mustache, sideburns, hairstyle. Interested in body shape or stature: thin, tall, slim, fat, full of solid, athletic or big height and so on.
True love is not the same as sex
Love is a process; sex is an action. Love can be learned; sex is an instinct. Love requires continuous attention; sex doesn't need to be like that. Love takes time to develop and mature; sex doesn't need time to develop. Love requires emotional and spiritual interaction; sex only requires physical interaction. Love makes relationships deeper; sex without love makes relationships tenuous.
Basically there are three behaviors in fostering relationships with others, which is often called "Love".