110% on the mark!
I took the day off work to help unload food at a foodbank in a small town of 500.
I'm 48 years old and I was the youngest person there. The second youngest was 60.
The little old ladies (oldest was 84) just kept complaining and worrying what a destitute young man wandering outside the foodbank was going to break or steal.
They wouldn't ask him to help or give him a cup of coffee (it was 17 degrees F outside)
Their virtue signalling did nothing to help him. But they sure felt accomplished when I was done unloading the trailer of food.
If we keep this up, the people trying to help will be over-run, over-worked, tired, sore and broke because the virtue signallers won't change.
Were the little old ladies there to get food or were they working at the food bank? In my experience, little old ladies are afraid of just about everything. Lol.