Apparently me telling my bad personal experience with my ex boyfriend becoming verbally and physically violent disturbed him. In my latest post I used a screenshot of one of his pictures of two cars. I thought the picture was relevant for my story and I wanted to tell it. He messaged me that he reported copyright infrigements and that he will make me dissapear from hive with this and receive massive downvotes. I am deeply sad to see such hatred. Despite the fact he also holds content with me in it and I could have reported too, but i chosed to not do harm.
I ask the community:is this for real? You can get banned from here if a person with bad intentions really wants you out?
Should I remove the photo? I write this because being so threatened by him and thinking he will get what he wants, I might not be able to post.
I am deeply sad seing such malice. I would kindly ask the more experienced members to tell me what would be alright for me to do.
No you cannot be banned the information is on the chain for everyone to see if they want to, yes he can downvote all your posts but that’s about it! Unless this person has massive stake or people with massive stake supporting His hate crusade then I doubt your rewards are in danger!
You can edit your post and remove the image but the text and changes will always remain on the Blockchain as well as the revisions
I am really scared I did not expect such immense hatred and posting on hive and being here is one of the best things for me during these times. I panicked and that is why I posted because i don't want to lose this. He told me i will get blacklisted and lose everything and nobody from hive will ever hear from me. So I will remove the photo. The story remains. I am still in shock seeing this behaviour and I feel embarassed to have hive see all of this.I just wanted to tell my story because O believe it is not ok to sit in silence. Thank you for your fast reply and i appreciate
I don’t think you need to worry too much, the whole point of the Blockchain is to not have censorship so even if you could be banned/hidden which could only be done via a soft fork from one site it doesn’t mean your blog is removed from other sites using the HIVE chain! No single person has control over that even if they had lots of HIVE Power
I guess it’s better to be on the safe side and not stir up more animosity and move on! Your creativity and thought is more than one or even a few posts so don’t let it get you down and keep sticking around 😬
I already modified it, wow, i am shocked. But it should not surprise me. Yes, i will not let it get to me, i will move on. What a horrible experience. That is why i wanted to tell my story so women should learn to defend themselves
I understand some arguments are not worth having and ive learned that sometimes letting go is the best! Say for example if someone owes you money you can chase them for months to pay it back or you can say okay that was $100 lesson in never to trust that person and have got a bad Oerson out of my life who could have cost me even more
That’s what it’s all about I agree sharing your experiences so we all know what the real human condition is like not the curated instagram life we want to portray always
Thank you very much for your support, I could not believe my eyes seeing that and I got tired to be bullied when I want to speak my mind. I feel embarassed for all the story. This is a community for creativity, positivity, good things. It helped me a great deal to be here during these times. And faced with the idea of getting banned for telling my story made me panick. Now I hope I will be able to continue my normal routine with posting art, facepainting and writing. Positive happy things.
And that’s how it should be, I may not agree with everything you say but I’ll defend your right to say it!
You shouldn’t have to be embarrassed it’s not your fault!
Good luck and keep going!
Don't worry, he's just talking plain shit.
He can't remove your ability to post on Hive.
Oh gosh thank you, a few members reassured me. I got so scared and the only thing I felt to do to defend myself is to ask for opinions here. Thank you very much! I am much better now😊
Great to hear :)
We can't change people and we can't help with everything, but if he's trying to bully you more on Hive, we can try to be as your support.
Hello! Thank you very much it really means a lot to see support here, I was really scared yesterday. Now I want to just have peace of mind.
He can fuck off. Don't let him get what he wants.
He's just scaring you and manipulating you. Don't listen to that piece of shit. He's just pissed that he got exposed. As long as you didn't do anything wrong you shouldn't be scared.
Continue to post what you want, it's your life. He doesn't have any control over it.
Hello! Yes, I now realise his attempt to bully and scare me, that is why I reached out here. Thank you!!
This is impossible. You can't be blocked from Hive like that.
I found out too it is not possible members here told me and I feel at ease
Just roll on Mary, do your thing and don't worry as everyone else has said.
Thank you, it is all water under the bridge for me, I moved on. I am sure this was a lesson for me to learn from it and I am actually happy that I discovered ex-related things and saw bad behaviours. It only helped me to realise how important is to pay attention to the red flags and to do what is best for me. I am sure I will meet a good family guy and that someday he will write with the same love and respect as I see you and others write about your wives. And this thought is good enough for me to just roll on as you said😊
I'm sure you will find someone suitable, one who matches your passion for life and love. I always tell people never to settle, to hold themselves on a high pedestal and to make people step up there with them, rather than see themselves step down. It means to value who you are, put simply.
I watched one of your videos the other day, not the whole thing, just a few minutes. It was a book review...You have the softest most pleasant voice I think I've ever heard. It's so mellow and soothing. Quite lovely.
Anyway, just saying.
I hope you have a great day. 🙂
Thank you for your words, I always value my standards and you are right about the pedestal. Only the worthy will climb there up with you, the others will only try to make you lower yourself and succumb to their mediocrity.
I have been told I have a very asmr like voice. At first I did not believe it until I recorded myself. After I sent the recording to a couple of people, they told me I should do something about it. So making videos and talking is a great way of expressing myself. And if my voice also helps others... It is just a bonus😊Have a great day too!
I'm sure things will work out well for you.