Hi everyone, my name is lisna, i am a student, and i am 22 years old, i was born in indonesia, to be precise in the province of aceh, i am married and have a handsome husband, we just got married on 06 August 2020 then.
Became the future of a mother is not easy, you must be able to maintain everything, to be better, very many people do not like the job of being a housewife, most people still like being a working woman, but now, there are still many which argues for working mothers and housewives. Many people think that working mothers are no more noble than housewives. Career women or housewives have the same role. Each plays the role of mother equally well. No one is better or less.
Working or being a housewife is a choice
Being a working mother or housewife must have been considered. These considerations certainly involve many parties, including the husband. Being a career woman may be chosen because of the urgent economy. Relying on one door income is not enough, so the wife also has to work. Or a husband who supports his wife's career and encourages her to continue to grow. Choosing to be a housewife has definitely been passed through discussion. Seeing how the household economy and the ability of husband and wife.
Every mother has her own reasons
Every choice a mother makes, there must be a fundamental reason. Not all working mothers are selfish and not all housewives are lazy to develop. Career women may be forced to work because the family economy is not good. The husband's income is not sufficient or the children's needs are starting to increase. Likewise, mothers who choose to be full mothers. They devote themselves to being housewives so that their children can be supervised.
But that does not mean that career women do not love their children
Many career women are able to establish good relationships with their children. The key is the division of time between work and personal life.
No mother let her baby, they have their own way to love their baby
Many think career women do not pay attention to their children. The assumption that career women are selfish and do not want to take care of the household is not true. Every household has their own ways and rules. Who says housewives don't need vacations? Precisely housewives, especially housewives who already have children should often feel the holidays.
Not many people know that the work of a housewife is also heavy and full of responsibility. Housewives work to take care of everything related to household problems from morning to night. Can you imagine not, how being a housewife is not easy. Especially if she doubles as a woman who works while looking for extra money. Busy and tired can be doubled.
Vacation is a moment that is eagerly awaited by everyone, especially housewives. Lots of fun things to enjoy. Especially when the holidays are enjoyed with loved ones. Of course the holiday will be very special and memorable. Everyone can go on vacation, but the usual obstacles are not having time, being busy, having no friends on vacation and not having enough funds (that's for sure). However, for housewives what are the obstacles?
There is a more harmonious household when the wife is at home taking care of the children and the house. But there are those whose household runs well when husband and wife work.
Besides working as a housewife, I have a hobby of picnicking, for me a picnic is a way to entertain myself after a tired day carrying the burden at home, housewives also really need a picnic. Here are some reasons:
Eliminate boredom
The first reason why housewives need a picnic is to relieve boredom. Imagine, Moms. A monotonous and never-ending work routine will cause boredom and saturation. Moreover, housewives do not have time limits for work and holidays like other office workers. Not to mention the business of managing household finances, Mommies will feel their own burden. That is why, housewives also need to go on a picnic, at least a vacation with family on the weekend will refresh the mind and mood that has started to get saturated. If the mother's mind and heart are happy, of course she will be more enthusiastic in taking care of the household.
Strengthening Husband-Wife Relationships
Imagine when Moms feel tired and bored with household domestic matters, then Dads are also tired and tired of working at the office. When boredom and tiredness hit, of course what you want is to be understood. When Moms and Dads both want to be understood, what is actually there is that they both get emotional easily. Well, for that Moms need a picnic to strengthen the relationship between Moms and Dads. With holidays automatically quality time between family members will be created, especially husband and wife relationships. Relationships that may have started to feel bland and monotonous, can get excited again with the togetherness of enjoying the excitement of vacation time. Vacations can improve the condition of a broken household.
Creating Memories with Family
Moms don't want what is remembered in the hearts of Dads and children, Moms are mothers who are stressed because of household chores that explode every day. Therefore, a beautiful and pleasant moment with the family you love is definitely a special moment that must be captured. With holidays, you can create new moments that you can capture for memories and stories with your family.
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