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RE: Is "Find Your Passion" Bad Advice?!

in #onelovedtube6 years ago (edited)

Totally get your point. I've thought of it like this.. at least this is MenO 2018 (disclaimer subject to change with no warning)

The issue with one following our passion is that we attach that notion to the idea of being successful at it. But, because the definition of success is redefine by our economic needs, then our expectations are set to the standard.

No Money = you suck
Money = you are good

Of course we know that logically this can't be true. As there are plenty of mega talented individuals who've never made much money doing their art, following their passion.

The truth is that financial gain is probably more connected to other fields of knowledge than the ones most who would follow this advice would feel identified with.

For example:

Someone who is a good musician (not great, just good), but is a great leader, a businessman, a networking ninja. Has a huge advantage over one that is ten times better a musician but has no idea how money and business works.

However, to me the idea of following one's passion is still valid. But, we must define what it means for us to be successful at our passion. If we are not willing to think about that, to unattach money to our sense of self worth. Then I would say - Don't do it.

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I like money and the more the better and my time is valuable too and many things has value. So, we can invest in money, cryptocurrencies, in gardens, and especially in people.

In gardens?

That's so true @meno. Great comment. I completely agree with you, it's tricky especially in creative fields that are often low paying and so subjective. Even with my experience at art school, it can be difficult to be trying to express yourself and then teacher feedback is negative. It can really shake your sense of self!
I'm trying to focus on my passion projects on the side and see where they'll go instead of putting pressure on them to be my livelihood!

Negative Deflection = Mirror

Negativity is mostly deflection, reflection, as people feel bad when others are doing good, and art, music, and many things are beautiful, creative, and people can fall into the habit of criticizing it because they're hurting. In other words, people can act like bullies when they are negative, even teachers for example like you are saying. So, of course, people hurt us, emotionally at least.

Spiritually - Our Heart

Deep inside us, deep in our heart, however, we can choose whether we will let our emotions determine how we are, who we are, what we believe, what we do. You can choose to be strong.

Fellowship - Offline Social Networks

You can meet with people who are aligned with who you are in order to refuel, recover, as the world can be tough. If people are attacking you, then you are light, you are good.