Something else Heinrich said to me today:
We play this game where one person repeats everything the other says, including sounds.
I always talk German and use new words and he repeats them all 😁
When it was his turn, he said: "I am the perfect mum for Heinrich."
Among other things.
During the evening these words really sunk in for me: Yes, yes we ARE the perfect parent for our child. No matter what that looks like.
We are the perfect parent for them.
And, as much as this might trigger some of you, your parents are perfect for you, too.
Now, that doesn't mean it's always perfect or we don't need boundaries and they always do as we expect the perfect parent to act (busted!), it means that the parent shows up in the perfect way for the child in that moment and vice versa.
To learn what we learn, to plant the seeds we plant, etc.
Each parent is perfect for their child.
It's true.
That brings us away from comparison to focusing on our own garden as well and learning with and from each other rather than putting our opinion and way onto others.
I like this concept.
I am the perfect mother for my child and my parents are perfect for me.
With everything I had to learn, my child has to learn, our strengths and weaknesses, our lessons, etc.
We are the perfect parents for our children. In exactly the way it looks right now.
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