I decided this post is going to prove invaluable for when I am writing, so I wanted to resteem. There is no resteem button - maybe because I just did so for your '18 upvote' post? Will it come back later? Anyway, at least I was able to follow.
As for a comment on your points: I think that even those of us who try to be honest in our arguments/debates, sometimes slip up and use one form or the other. It makes your post even more valuable, for it might help us recognise what we are doing.
- Had to edit to add this comment, otherwise my first sentence might not make sense. When I write, there usually is a bad guy - or woman. I find it easy to write for the good ones, but find it difficult to make the bad guy bad, so they often turn out to have been good all along, maybe just hurting, and so on. At least I might now have a few formulas for making them sound more bad...for a while.
thanks for your reply. Im pretty sure you cant resteem because its past the 7 day mark. Anyways thanks for reading @arthur.grafo