I am talking looks but in general, she is better than me in most things so it goes across the board.
We met in Finland on the dance floor. I was scared to dance with her because she is an incredible dancer and I am basic level so I stared at her for a while until I worked up the courage to ask. It took a while to work out but eventually, here we are :)
Such an amazing woman must also have good judgement, so perhaps she sees something in you that you don't rate highly in yourself. After reading your post today, I'd say one of those things is the drive to do whatever it takes to care for your family.
So you visited Finland and stayed when you fell in love? :D