Music, is the greatest joy of life;
Music, is a stream of life;
Music, is the furnace to cultivate temperament.
With the improvement of living standards and education awareness, many parents gradually pay attention to children's comprehensive quality education, and music education is an important part of it. It is not difficult to find that music educational institutions are everywhere, and the number of children learning music is also increasing year by year.
But while the number of children learning music has grown, so have the number of people who give up halfway. In the minds of children who give up, learning music can be a whim. I want to learn. In the minds of parents who indulge their children in giving up, learning music should respect their children's interests.
Some children have a wide range of interests. They want to learn more instruments at the beginning, but they are always tired of learning and even fail to learn a musical instrument well. Therefore the child learns music, the attitude of the parent must be resolute, cannot let the child "do whatever you want", want to learn to learn, want to give up to give up.
01
Kids don't want to learn? Parents: keep learning!
In many cases, parents' attitude can affect children's behavior to some extent, especially in terms of learning. If parents pay attention to their children's study, their children are less likely to slack off in their study. On the contrary, if parents think it is ok to learn, their children may not pay much attention to their study.
Some parents attach great importance to their children's cultural courses, but their attitude towards extra-curricular classes such as learning Musical Instruments is relatively casual, which is wrong -- since they made up their mind to study Musical Instruments in the class, and paid money and spent time, they should take it seriously.
First of all, parents treat their children's learning seriously, which is conducive to the development of a serious attitude towards things. Parents should treat each other equally whether they are learning academic subjects or Musical Instruments, because they are all learning and there is no "high or low" in learning.
Secondly, children's nature is good to change, interest and enthusiasm often can not last. And a lot of parents are more democratic, treat extracurricular interest class to see the child's individual intention completely, this leads to the child's heart "come apart", learn what all by the interest of the moment, when the interest comes to learn once, when the interest gives up.
In the long run, children will form a casual attitude towards learning. Therefore, parents should help their children insist on learning music, and never let them develop the bad habit of giving up halfway.
Finally, the child likes to practice the musical instrument and does not like to practice the musical instrument, practices the result is not different. In many cases, parents attach too much importance to children's interests. Although children's interests contribute to learning to some extent, most of the time children's interests are changeable and unsustainable.
Therefore, parents force their children to continue to learn Musical Instruments, but it is honed the heart of the child, and the child likes to practice Musical Instruments, as long as the effect is good.
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Do you specialize in one instrument or do you study multiple instruments?
It is normal for children to have a wide range of hobbies, but these hobbies often do not last. Many parents respect their children's wishes -- to learn a few instruments, or to learn more instruments -- to gain more knowledge and develop more abilities.
But in fact, children should specialize in one instrument rather than multiple instruments.
Some people may ask if it is not good for children to play several instruments together as long as they are interested and want to learn. Two questions need to be asked: can children's interests last? Do children have the willpower to learn multiple instruments? Does the child have time to practice multiple instruments?
Any art requires dedication and persistence, especially when it comes to playing a musical instrument. Learning several instruments at the same time not only involves the children, but also takes a lot of time to practice and wastes the parents' money. Therefore, it is better to specialize in one instrument, if the child is interested in several instruments at the same time, then let him choose the most interesting instrument to learn.
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When you play an instrument, the most important thing is duration, not duration
Some people wonder why one hour a day for six years is better than three hours a day for three years?
In fact, in terms of the total length of practice, 3 hours per day, those who practiced for 3 years were significantly longer than those who practiced for 1 hour per day and 6 years. However, from the perspective of durability, those who persist for six years will definitely gain more on the piano than those who persist for three years.
The pursuit of learning a musical instrument is not duration, but persistence. Only insist on will gradually find that music brings the beauty of life, will find that music can share your joy, tell your sadness, comfort your soul.
Only insist on learning music, music will give you the most gentle embrace and the most sincere company.
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