Hello my dear @zephalexia :)
I like how balanced your view of the toll time takes on love is! You said it has a positive and negative effect. This is a very smart ways of approaching love. Even more so for you (us), who are in a long term relationship.
I believe the couples who manage to have a successful relationship are the very ones who can see things through this light: Not letting the negative stuff cloud what is good ! Nice one :)
It will be lovely to receive a sweet message from you during my break ! 😘❤️
You take care!
Lots of love to you and the minis.