Behaviours usually get modulated so fast especially in this part of the world, that all it takes is one sentence from the mother, "I will tell daddy" to get the most obnoxious, unruly kid to order. No one wants a whopping the way fathers usually give it. Some mothers, too, know how to provide it as evidenced here. It appears draconian and some wonders if it works. I'd say it has a higher percentage of success in keeping the very boisterous and manipulative kids in line. Though some disagree with the process, most African parents may very well tell you it works more than any other methods of checkmating lousy behaviour. It is a subject that not everyone agrees with, but from my experience, it works! It may not have to be physical, and it may range from denial of privileges such as the use of a phone, outing, presents, etc. as punishment for bad behaviour. With time the kids learn that bad behaviour comes with discipline. For a balance, good practice should come with a reward.
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Oh my God Green!! Her distress while explaining herself to her mother!! Owwww..
But, all her mother needed to say was 'stop now!' (when she went towards the brother). Also, the mother is SO switched on 'there are no tears coming down your eyes!' (this reminds me very much of Lilly!). That adorable little girl surely respects her mamma! Poor little thing. She is so pretty 😍
Like you, I very much agree with punishing bad behaviour; and also as you pointed out, it is important to balance it out with rewarding discipline and good-manners! :)
Lots of love to you Green. Now, I have to show this video to my husband !!!
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That was a cuteness attack. She pleaded her case very well, I hope she was able to convince Mama and walk away from that dreaded flip-flops :)
Owwww 😂