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RE: Psychology Addict # 43 | The Corrosive Effect of Time on Love

in #psychology6 years ago

Hello @ruth-girl

What's a well written product of research work.

While agreeing with the various results of Hatfield surveys, I wanna add that I expect marriages to be turbulent during the first year as the parties are still learning themselves, and adapting to each others ways of life. I think that explained why both passionate and compassionate loves diminished in the first year of marriages. Then as the couples master themselves, their love for one another is rekindled once again. I think that was why both were found to increase once again after some years, as the couples, having adapted to one another, began to to appreciate each other.

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Hello there dear @sciencetech :)

Your insight is SO accurate! I actually shared with Ruth-girl a study that supports your idea of why love oscillates throughout a long term relationship:

Adams and Munro (1978) say about levels of passionate love observed in newlyweds, which is lower than that seen in dating couples and those in a long-lasting marriage. They put his down exactly to the 'distribution of roles' which is higher early on in a marriage.

You are ON it @sciencetech :D Well done :)
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Really. That's great to know