I don't think we disagree with each other. In fact, it seems we both agree that nation-states of today are for the most part not operating for the benefit of the people. I'm not saying that America is overall better than any other country.
I'm just saying on those two particular issues it is freer than other countries. Take that dog in the burning house as an example: if you add a fire extinguisher and the ability to yell fire, then that's America. Have no fire extinguisher and put a gag in the dog's mouth so it can't speak.
Well, that's a country without the right to bear arms or speak freely. If one cannot say what is on their mind without walking on eggshells then they can't really make it known there is a problem. This forces people to speak around the problem and does not foster good communication.
Ultimately, one of these times Nation states will deem themselves and their employees a protected class. This will cause a condition where speaking ill of government or its employees will qualify as hate speech. If you think it might be bad now, just wait till they pull that one out of their bag of tricks.