I thought your name was just a coincidence with the quote. I actually came across after I went through some stuff and figured out most things on my own. It's almost like a wish I've made upon myself because I always try hard and go through a lot to realize something and then just a little later (or sometimes months/years later) I come across the same realizations of a different person. It's almost like I've wished to never come across anything that I haven't at least partially realized. The thing is that I wouldn't have my life in any other way.
Basically dmwh means to me that whatever happened just happen ED. Any psychological/spiritual thing that comes after is your own making. Poison will do just fine until you inject it calling the poison is fucking dangerous because poison fucking kills everybody. The less things you worry about, more fucks you are giving. At each moment you'll be giving away a piece of your freedom and peace.
For me DMWH is total acceptance of the present moment and , on top of that, my taking total responsibility for myself and my situation always. It is impossible to be a creator and a victim at the same time. A person must choose one or the other.
You are pretty much saying the same thing in a different dialect. Everything is within the realm of actions and consequences (dependent origination). Stuff happens and you deal with them. The way you deal with them shapes the future.