I think understanding how other people interpret our actions is really hard. It’s very challenging for people to know how they are perceived as well. Intent is often not clear.
I’m glad you got a diagnoses. Auto immune diseases are becoming increasingly more common these days.
I often wonder why these things are becoming more common. Is it better diagnoses techniques? Is it the environment we live in? Is it the food we eat? A combination of all these things? Who knows.
I know a lot of people with auto immune diseases so you are definitely not alone in this.
To answer your question. I cannot hold myself to a standard in which I am perfect and don’t make mistakes. If someone doesn’t make mistakes then I have questions, because to me they must be lying.
According to the Bible, everyone falls short of the glory of God; this is why we need his mercy.
We all make mistakes. The question is not whether we achieve perfection, but whether we acknowledge our error and try to improve day by day, or revert to our base instincts and regress as we age.