When we learn to balance our emotions with rational thinking and the wisdom of the master, we find the security and validation of our existence. Then we learn that the first two come from a deep place within us and not from an external source. We learn, finally, the meaning of self-respect.
It's all inside.. maybe it is not necessary that nobody is helping, but it is so important to realize that in yourself are the limits, the obstacles, the excuses and the fears, that some people need a little of those words (which can be hard) to realize that in us is the change, greetings