Many are seriously waiting for a complete Partner or a perfect mate. Their definition of a dream partner is like an endless list.
Hear me! God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you a Partner in form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire. There is no perfect man or woman!
When you work on your imperfections, you make your relationship or courtship perfect.
I have always advice my friends before you fall in love with someone, please kindly seek for his or her weakness or imperfections, if you discover it, then work on it because that is the only thing that will keep your love.
Don't work on the mentality of "Love is blind", because when Love start seeing, the first thing it'll see is your imperfections and incompatibility.
Every woman has a password, at the same time every man has a code. Password and code does not imply what makes you both happy. Look at your weakness(es) and imperfections and adjust to make it your strength. This is the power of Love where it is made perfect. Turning weakness to strength, imperfections to perfection.
I have seen people who didn't date but they are enjoying their marriage. Yes, it is true.
But i want to tell you that every marriage has its own level of success and challenges.
Here is the secret, when there is no time to date, the secret is to overlook his or her goodness or perfections and seek for his or her imperfections. If you can cope or manage it then you are ready for Love.
But I'll advice... Don't ignore Friendship, Relationship and Courtship before Marriage so as to help you both know your Weaknesses and Imperfections.
No matter how blind Love is...imperfections and weakness is an enemy of love. If Love has played its own role to bring you both together, now its time to join hands together and work on your imperfections.
No One Is Perfect, Make Him Or Her What You Desire.