Various efforts that we can do to build the integrity of love. All need effort and process. Especially for those who have a couple whose past dark. Because not all couples can maintain love after knowing the past is not as light as his partner.
For example, a palace building that requires a defensive fortress to remain firmly standing. Similarly, love requires mutual understanding to complement each other for the perfection of love.
Indeed.
If we want to grow we must face those dark sides and our partners are gifting us with their past issues.