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RE: I Am So Excited To Present To You The First Episode Of A Programme That Keeps You Engaged, Informed And Entertained .

in #relationship8 years ago

Nice! Nice! I love this. Glad you started it.

Since bro Ezekiel will receive this message I wouldn't want to start with this but I don't have any other thing to start with. So, let me just start with it.

Bro, what took you so long? 10 years. You should have taken her to the alter.

I know you want to do the right thing first — help her get into school and all that — but the timing was too long.

Enough of the blame games.

Loving someone or giving your everything to someone is not an assurance that they will do the same to you. You can love someone with your whole and not be loved a bit in return. Love is one ponzi scheme. You can invest everything you have and then you won't have return on investment at the end of the day.

I know bro Ezekiel will be like, "this dude doesn't understand how I'm feeling." That's true but you just have to move on.

She might love you before but because of the timing, she might have lost interest. I now you claim you love her. How ladies think is different from how men think. They are more driven by emotions. You need to constantly tell, show and remind her that you love her. Maybe she felt she's not loved because you didn't propose on time. I know you are still paying the bills and making sure she's okay. But to her, it may look like eye service done out of compulsion because you've started already.

You should talk to her one more time. This time, man-to-woman. Let her tell you the reason why she decided to leave and call the relationship over. Be ready to take whatever comes out.

Life goes on. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

What if she died after the 10 years (God forbid). But you can't do anything about it?

Wish you the best...

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Thanks @mr-aaron, he will get this.

You're welcome. I'm glad I could contribute