The courtship game, which is the hunt of the man after the woman, can easily last for a long period of time depending on the level of maturity of the people. This festivity, like a child's play, includes in it the virtue of fun between the rival sides. While the man insists, pushes and courts passionately - being loyal to his part in the romantic game - the woman must take the position of "disinterested", of supposedly indifferent. The woman believes that she must remain true to her moral values and seemingly high standing, while at the same time remaining sensitive and alert to men's gestures to react to their communications and encourage them to court.
This was the process that they instilled in us (at least in this side of the world), when women are direct, open and receptive, they are beginning to be labeled as easy women, besides the fact that men do not come with firm and lasting intentions, so this is like a kind of long-lasting test, that if you approve you win the prize, maybe it is wrong, although I believe that every culture has its customs.
Sadly so. Fortunately, it begins to change.