The Respect When You Are Not Around
There are billions of people on Earth and very often we have difficulties to find loyal people we can trust when we are not around. It is important to point out that if you have people that betrays you in any sort of way, make sure you are not the one acting like them behind their back either afterwards. In the end it is in fact Not worth the effort.
If you want the world to change, just go in front of a mirror and you will see where to start. When you start changing for the better, many will follow. I have to say that since I started posting motivational articles, my life has changed a lot. I'm really taking all my strength from within and I would love for you to take that experience as well.
There are going to be people that will fail you and annoy the hell out of you. It is a mature step to see how you react to them. If you feel content in your heart, it may not affect you much when someone is talking about you in a bad way behind your back. It is actually excellent to see who does, so you know where to be heading in your life.
In other hand, it you are still working on feeling content (in peace), you may a bit of trouble to act peacefully and walk away from the negativity. In the end, you always have full control of your actions most of the time and you will learn from the actions of the people around and your own actions as well.
Make sure you appreciate and take care all those people that are loyal to you and love you the same way you love them as well. Just be the change you want to see in the world and your world will change forever.
Many blessings for all of you today.
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""You can go through Fire and still not get burned"."
"Become someone legendary to achieve your dreams"
"Clear your mind, body and soul to show what you are really made of"
"Love is like a box of chocolates because you never know what you are going to get"
"Be there for your love ones when it rains, they know you'll stand with them when it shines"
"The power of your words depends on the power of your actions"
"Save yourself, Your Life Is 100% Your Responsibility"
"Make your future bigger than your Past"
"Take care of your dreams today, so your dreams take care of you tomorrow"
"Your kindness will always return to you in any way, shape or form"
"If you want to get an education, just travel the world"
"Beautiful things in life are beautiful, because they were hard to achieve"
"Love everybody the same way you love yourself. If you don't love yourself, you have no one to love"
"You change the world by changing yourself and providing a little bit of kindness everyday"
"Never look down on someone, unless you are helping them up"
"Take care of your body, so your body takes care of you"
"You can't give others what you don't have; If you do, you're giving part of yourself"
"Embrace your dream with passion and love, and money will come after you"
"If you want the world to change, just look at yourself in the mirror and you will see where to start. "
Stay blessed.
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Note: Each post is created out of life experiences and personal opinion. There is nothing written in stone, your opinion is valuable and can be different.
Look at yourself every night in the mirror before bed, and think of something you could have done better today. Make yourself a more respectable person in your own eyes next morning.
Very nice habit to do my friend, whoever does this will change everyday for the better.
You are right @javybar .People who says good about us when we are not around are loyal to us :)
that's right my friend ! :)
YOu have picked an amazing topic to talk about. Trust , Loyalty and Respect Everyone loves you and cares about you if you Have money and you are there in front of them. Everyone in the world respect for rich people but only when they are there in front of them.
No one respect them from heart.
To find someone who loves you and cares about you and respect you when you are not there are real and loyal friend or other relatives.
Finding these type of relation in this world is very difficult and someone who have then are the luckiest one.
what a lovely comment my friend, Totally appreciated a lot :)
Dear friend @javybar 👋, Thank you very much for sharing our wonderful and useful articles that always talk about the reality of life we live in. It is wonderful to learn from the experiences of different people in customs and traditions. The people who speak the question behind our backs do not care about them, There is a saying (who speaks behind your back, you know the front)
I am very happy to know you, you are a great person, and I am always happy to follow you and read your articles ، good luck my friend 👍
And all my he best for you 😃😉
thank you very much my friend, it is always a pleasure
Wellcome for you my dear friend @javybar 👍😃
I really agree with your opinion @javybar. we must respect others even if the person is not in front of us. treat them with respect then others will respect you. thank you @javybar for a tremendous motivation
Thank you very much my friend :)
@javybar, Absolutely well said my friend. I appreciate your whole thoughts include here.
That's true. If we need to change world definitely need to start change from us. If we changed other once automatically change their way and world will be peaceful and success.
that's a very lovely message my friend, changing the world is in reality very simple, you just focus on yourself first :)
Well, this is the real respect!
Respect is not what other people say on your face, respect is what other's do on your back, respect is what when other say good words on your back. when you are not around, If someone asks other's about you, and they get a positive feed back ,this is respect.
i am always agree with your opinion.because always giving great thoughti in your blog.. Its vital to have such companions who regard you in each condition. The general population who respect you and believe you before you that implies they are simply phony. Try not to put stock in such individuals.thanks to sharing for your good post..mu dear friend..@javybar
kind words for @javybar,
In my opinion these are great words for to do a respect as it mentioned.
Thank you i'm glad you are agreed with me :)
that is real respect my friend, thank you very much :)
your welcome my friend.
just appopriate thought sharing you this time.. respect is one the most important part in our human life..alot of people come into you life, put on a show to care and you trust them only for them to break that trust the moment you turn your back or the moment they quit requiring you.i am agree with your opinion and appreciate your post obviously. yesterday you not upvote my link.i hope that,you forget me..i am right.but i thought you always lived with me and alltime support my work.i think that,tlyou are my best friend in the real life.just not forget me and encouraged my work.i expect doing its. i hope you are fine today..i am ok fully.. take care yourself and best of luck of your great work..i want you always stayed my sides..keep it up.see you again.very well done..my dear friend.. @javybar
i totally agree respect is not how we get its we earn by our own behavior and personality ...
it's let other to make there perspective on your behavior no matter you are there or not but your impact always been there @javybar
Wow amazing words with great message.Yes, my friend we should respect to those who respect us not in front of us but when we are not around and they are our true friends.They are the people who will support you in your hardship.Some people are good at your face and talks good about you in front of you but may talk bad about you when you aren't around.thanks for sharing it with us.@javybar
Real love change everything. As we love them whose are loyal to us than we can make a better world. And i'm really pleased that when you started posting motivational articles, your life has changed a lot. Thats a true fact as our thoughts are pure then we get a better life like yours. Thanks a lot sir @javybar for the great motivated content.💜🌹🌹🌹
we are all evolving my friend, thank you very much for all your support :)
a very good post @javybar, to trust someone is very difficult, and to find a friend who is loyal to us is also very difficult. But of the many friends we have, we can certainly find a friend who is sincere to us, among all our friends. But, we do not give full trust to him, because man will err when there is a golden opportunity in front of him, he never think of us. There is a saying that says "there is no friend term when dealing with money and power". Thank you, and I hope you have a wonderful day... :)
wonderful thoughts my friend. It is very true when it comes to money and power. True friendship goes beyond money and power. If you find anyone that does not care about power or money when it comes to you, you have found gold :)
I agree with you. If you want the world to change, just go in front of a mirror and you will see where to start. When you start changing for the better, many will follow. I appreciate your post, your every post about learning.
Thank you very much :)
sometimes the more we try to forgive the more we remember the ugliness of others, what would you do like that @javybar?
It may be important to great thinkers to examine the world, to explain and despise it. But I think it is only important to love the world, not to despise it, not for us to hate each other, but to be able to regard the world and ourselves and all beings with love, admiration and respect.
Btw we should respect all people who are do somthing better in society.
I believe a thing that if you respect someone ,you will definately able to get respect any how.
Really i appreciate to your post @javybar
Carry on your writing .
thank you very much my friend :)
Hi Sir, this is my third post on this platform. And,I came across your blog post which is really worth reading. Respect should be present in any way whether you are facing someone or behind someone. The real man is who respect you in every way.
If you don't mind can you please check out my intro post? It would be an honor for me :) I just followed you
Very true my friend. I appreciate it. Upvoted your comment :)
In this life, all human beings must have their own deficiencies and advantages. And all that is a gift from god to us. To live this life, we must be able to distinguish which friends we can trust, and which friends are just ordinary friends. A faithful friend is always there when we are in trouble, and will always support us, and he will stay away when we succeed, if we never see him again. thank you @javybar
Wonderful comment my friend, thank you very much :)
What a beautiful topic which touches my heart. Its important to have such friends who respect you in every condition. The people who admire you and trust you in front of you that means they are just fake. Don't trust such people
Very heart touching topic my friend, you are very right. There is nothing wrong in trust, but it needs to go the right places. The right places are where your heart tells you to be. Thank you for your contribution.
very nice motivated all words you said, If we are respect other, definitely we get respect.
you receive what you give out to the world my friend, thank you :)
Wow love it, thanks!
Hey nice to see...you @javybar
Hope you are well....from your post this line i like so much Iine
"if you want the world to change, just go in front of a mirror and you will see where to start. "you allways post something specail thats i like so much. dear..
Thank you so much for sharing this post.
Thank you very much my friend. This quote is very meaningful
yeah..thanks...for.sharing...dear...@javybar...
And how do we know who is loyal towards us? Is there any measuring parameters which measure the loyalty.. Alas no, there is nothing. my sweet friend, we meet many peoples in our routine life who pretends they are best for us they are our true wellwishers and at your back, they are doing backbiting making fun etc etc. such filthy minded people.well what to say there a lot of things which I want to say but I think should stop there :p ....
Respect is always a two ways street, if we want to have respect first we should respect others. Politeness in the tongue and kindness in the actions are the best ways to become charismatic. This is the perfect myth to enjoy a wonderful life and i do agree upon the fact you explained here,
Thanks lot @javybar and enjoy your weekend Friend ;)
Glad you liked this quote, it is very meaningful, thank you very much my friend :)
As always you are right. By changing ourselves, we change the world in which we live. Good luck to you and Love.
You are very correct my friend, Thank you very much :)
Your article is so impressive. Thanks for shring this heart toughing post.its a very difficult to find the loyal poeple .we want ti to change the world but before the change ourselves..
Look at ourself. Before going to sleep . Thinks of something. What could do better doing today. .
This Quoets. Is very good
You change the world by changing yourself and providing a little bit of kindness everyday"
Glad you liked this content because it is very meaningful. I appreciate it :)
Absolutely we should repect everyone even that is present or absent because it is dignity of human beings but in these days there is deficiency of these kindnesses but we have to change thanks @javybar for this great post.
thank you very much my friend :)
Totally we ought to repect everybody even that is available or missing in light of the fact that it is nobility of individuals however in nowadays there is inadequacy of these kindnesses yet we need to change thanks @javybar for this awesome post.
great post, my dear friend @javybar,Regard the premise of connections that live life span, The article is excellent and has extremely awesome advantage,thanks you for sharing with us,
What a delightful point which touches my heart. Its imperative to have such companions who regard you in each condition. The general population who respect you and believe you before you that implies they are simply phony. Try not to put stock in such individuals.
Unwaveringness is to a great degree hard to discover, alot of people come into you life, put on a show to care and you trust them only for them to break that trust the moment you turn your back or the moment they quit requiring you.
Faithfulness is extremely difficult to find, alot of individuals come into you life, put on a show to care and you believe them just for them to break that trust the minute you turn your back or the minute they quit requiring you.
@javybar I have seen many storms in my life. Most storms have caught me by surprise, so I had to learn very quickly to look further and understand that I am not capable of controlling the weather, to exercise the art of patience and to respect the fury of nature.
We all have storms and none of them last forever my friend. Be patient and think big :)
@javybar I have seen many storms in my life.
What a beautiful topic which touches my heart. Its important to have such friends who respect you in every condition.
very true! :)
repaying bad deeds with bad deeds is not a solution, by forgiving we have been happy ourselves, no longer pursued by the burden of the sins of others, do you agree @javybar?
of course! that's the way to go :)
Loyalty is really hard to come by, alot of people come into you life, pretend to care and you trust them only for them to break that trust the moment you turn your back or the moment they stop needing you. Keep the real ones... the loyal ones
keeping it real is the key. Provide your trust based on what you feel in your heart. The truth is the last one to stand at the end of the road.
Great post my friend,happy to hear that your all inspirational works not only effect us but also you too.Yes realy dear if you come through a nursery of flowers,your body also enrich with the fragrances.Thanks ones more for the great creation.
Thank you my friend for your motivational topics when people talk about you in your absence and you know you have not sinned against any of them
Remember, praise be to God, who filled them with you and did not occupy them
I respect much better your motivation concepts. Better quote introducing. Yeah..very difficult to find who's believable persons around the world. But without trust we can't go further. So exactly nee to find better trustable persons to our life. For that need to change our mind. We believe others and they gives up return back. First step is start own way.
Very nice inspirational and motivational post. It is really hard to find loyal people around you. You are extremely lucky to find loyal person if you have them you give them the respect. On the other hand people who betrayal you just leave them without any bad feelings. You can't change any one with your thinking. Your act can count. So just leave the foolish people who ditch you. Just be happy and try to change yourself. Be Happy remain fair. World will follow you
I think, respect an love interact with each
other @javybar.. Respect was invented to c
over the empty place where love should be..
Buenas noches @javybar, LEALTAD , un post que me representa , usted fue la primera persona a la que le comente en steemit , por esto , siempre estare pendiente de tus post , aunque este tarde .
Que tenga buenas noches :)
Respect the basis of relationships that live longevity
The article is beautiful and has really great benefit☺☺
Totally agreed with you friend.
Really a great and a amazing post my friend.
I am with you my friend . You brought today great writing. Respect is great weapon of line . Without this no value in everywhere.
Respect is not a hereditary right. To earn respect.
The sense of loyalty in modern times is almost no more, only a few good people who have it,
Because people judge everything with money, if we have money they will be faithful, but if we are poor they will go, regardless of its
You are right @javybar .
I really agree with your opinion .thanku for sharing
Anyone respecting someone will surely be respected.
Your writing skill is so good. Really appreciation. If I want to change I should to the front of the mirror. I like your blog about life.