Lots of NLP stuff in here, I never really studied NLP. I have an idea of it because people keep saying to me "thats what my NLP teacher said" lol..
Pretty sure there is only one reality, though we all resonate to it differently.
So what works, simply works, and when can repeat that, it is as close to truth as we need to get. Anything else is just words and theories, but are fun too.
Remember memory and emotion are linked and the body is also a storage device as life is about action. Skill is all, thinking that helps skill is skilful, thinking that hampers action....is pathology, well probably :)
your questions help me immensely, hope your also having fun with all this, though some of it is painful it is usually the bits we want to let go of :)
I'll definetly remember that :)