I also hate flying, and I agree it has now moved into overkill, body scans and such. However, if you compromise what is there, don't you end up with the worst of both worlds? All the "Feel Ups" and none of the safety.
I no longer fly for pleasure, it just isn't pleasant.
I don't think this is a black or white issue. Sure there should be safety measures but I feel that there is an agenda being pushed to make us afraid of each other and embrace whatever the powers-that-shouldn't-be deem necessary to control us like the cattle they think we are. I don't think that the George Soro's of the world care about the common man, thus the naked scanners and the small seats in airplanes.
Again, thanks for listening to my rant. I don't fly that often, but when I do I dread it.