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RE: [NSFW] Three kinds of horny

in #sex7 years ago

I have experienced all three of these, but physical horniness in a reaaaally small amount compared to the others. I have fantasized about almost anything, and I can easily feel attracted to someone- sometimes fantasy and attraction combine when there's no outlet, but physical horniness has been almost non-existent for me. I'm still questioning if I'm demisexual or not because of that.
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My understanding of demisexuality is that attraction to individuals is based on feelings or other ways of getting to know them, rather than physical appearance or mannerism.

I think the physical desire for release is something more dominant in males than females, though I haven't researched the subject. In which case, it might be testosterone based. No idea though.

Yes, exactly like that- like, if I'm at a concert or a bar and there's this person who I think is attractive, I can fantasize about them and feel those kinds of desire you mentioned. But if this person decides to approach me, it becomes a whole different situation, because it would be really hard for me to get into it with them unless it's someone who I really know and feel emotionally connected with. I still gotta do my research on that haha. I might talk about it later on another posts. As for today, I've only identified as bisexual, but I could also be biromantic and demisexual... It's a journey haha.
I have a few male friends who've felt related to what I said... But i really have no clue yet about that concept so i really can't say 😅

Good luck on your journey!