How to give pleasure?

in #sex8 years ago


From time to time in any relationship requires at least a small shake. But especially if sex has become (not)mandatory conjugal duty.

To posixtime
Sexting (from sex – "sex" and texting "send message") is the exchange of sexual messages and photos. Spicy cyber game appeared about ten years ago and took in mostly Teens, but today was a real massive trend attracting even for people of advanced age. According to a survey presented at the recent Convention of the American psychological Association, sexting doing 88% of adult Americans, two-thirds of them are in a relationship.
The issue of the safety of sexting with strangers and the passion for teenagers naturally remains open, but use sex chat rooms for Mature couples is clear. The same study showed that partners who had similar experience, a higher level of trust and satisfaction sex life.

Modern technologies allow to practice sexting in a variety of formats, from candid selfies to chat. However, we should not forget about the classic sex-correspondence – it is especially useful for those couples who are embarrassed to talk on intimate topics. Comfortable game mode, moreover, does not involve visual contact, allows you to openly talk about their desires and learn more about the fantasies of each other.

To engage in remote sex
Thanks to the achievements of the sex industry, virtual sex today can be filled and real feelings. For example, the latest model vibrating massager "for two" We-Vibe 4 Plus allows you to control the pleasure of a partner, even thousands of miles away. The feature works through a special smartphone app (available for iOS and Android), it also has three different modes of vibration, pulsation and escalation, create your own playlists and other options.

The idea of "remote game" is useful to implement offline and using for radio control toys: vibrating massagers for couples, vibrators, vibrating butt plugs, and other devices. In addition to new experiences, a prelude to their use are able to solve the common problem of "asynchronous", when one partner (often the woman) fails to come into sufficient excitement over the classic sex. In addition, most devices can be used "solo" and they have a nice pantomicina form that saves you from an awkward explanation from the one who found them accidentally by children or relatives.

Play researchers
Surprisingly, in the twenty-first century people know very little about sexuality from each other. Thanks to mass media and the porn industry-top men's awareness about the female orgasm are often the G spot and Squirting, the knowledge of women about male physiology be even poorer. Meanwhile, the stronger sex only on the penis area and the anus is located more than 30 erogenous zones, including the legendary "male G spot" or, as it is called, "point on a million dollars." Their correct stimulation is able to bring or, conversely, to delay the ejaculation, give new hints of an orgasm, and even have a positive impact on men's health and psychological state.

Besides the search for "points of pleasure" can become an inexhaustible source of new intimate scenarios ranging from erotic massage to more sophisticated games, for example, in "the artist" (partners applied the edible paint on the erogenous zones of each other, and then lick it). Despite the fact that "the card of sensuality" of each person individually, before the beginning of exciting research still should be armed with General knowledge about the known points and their stimulation techniques.

"Shake" fantasy
To indulge in sexual fantasies is not only normal, but helpful. Moreover, the lack of willingness to dream of something spicy may indicate problems with libido, stress and other negative state. Alas, the rhythm of modern life is not conducive to fantasy. Meanwhile, this skill will allow you to bring to the intimate many positive: faster tune to sex and to come to a state of excitation, to develop sensitivity and even to overcome the clamps and complexes.

"Swinging" imagination begins with the banal awareness. Paradoxically, many modern women don't even know what to dream, and to help here can come the erotic movie. Find a scene that excites you the most, and mentally scroll it in my head, imagining myself in the lead role. Repeat exercises 5-7 times a day, be sure to focus on the visual and sound details of the fantasy. It is important not only to master the very reconstruction of the erotic scenes, but also to learn to enjoy the process – this will help to anchor sensations at all levels, also helpful for General emotional state.

Train with pleasure
About the benefit of exercising the pelvic floor muscles is known from time immemorial. Intimate fitness helps to prepare for childbirth and to recover after the birth of a child, prevents unpleasant age-related changes and extend sexual youth. And of course, the condition of the intimate muscles and razboieni erogenous zones of the vagina largely shape the quality of sexual life, allowing you to get a more vivid sense of proximity.

Unlike their ancient predecessors and mechanical devices, modern simulators provide a more efficient workout and faster results in addition, almost all models are equipped with a feedback function, providing timely information on progress. But truly a new experience intimate fitness is able to give modern muscle stimulation, also referred to as simulators "for the lazy". All the muscles of the vagina, these devices will take over, affecting the necessary zones of the pulsed current, their owner will be only to pleasure and orgasm!
Source: http://fb.ru/article/29518/kak-dostavit-udovolstvie-jenschine-v-posteli-i-ne-tolko

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