Gratitude is hard for many.

in #sicknesslast month

My work partner has been a bone in my neck starting from when I fell sick. She said a lot of ridiculous things , she just couldn't stomach the fact that she has started making money from the skills I brought to the table and suddenly I'm out sick, not sure when I'd return, because of the uncertainty and panick, she said inhuman things.

I continued working in the first week when I fell sick, but I couldn't continue in the second and third week. Later she had to come to terms with it.

She is a very greedy and insatiable person, and she worships money like a god, unfortunately she her, she isn't as hardworking. In the first two month, I was grateful to have made $650 before I slumped into illness, and took care of some bills.

Recently I decided to get back to the job because why not? I needed the money, I made another 200$ on average, it went to food and medicine, and she gifted me another 100$ for one NFT she sold.

A few days ago, she didn't make enough money for something we put a lot of effort in, and she went all around blaming me for the poor financial returns. I told her I was going to quit, by December probably.

What I didn't tell her was that her behavior has been unbearable. Why not? Well I'm still in recovery mode, the job has been excruciating and painstakingly stressful, but I just had to return to it because of the money I need.

then I decided to take a 12 hours break, she panicked, and began to apologize. She said she has a divorce case and she needed money to take her ex husband to court.

I didn't say much because my mind was already made up, I already decided to leave the job by December, not because it's not good, but because the partner is an ungrateful person, compares herself to other people and cannot stop nagging about needing money.

Why December? Obviously the market should peak and alt season is inevitable by December. I've learned a lot in that job, and I hope the lady can learn to appreciate loyalty and hardwork when I leave. There aren't a lot of loyal people in the world.

She has promised me money and good life, asking me to quit whatever I was doing to dedicate more time, but I just knew I wasn't going to buy that bait.

Life is full of ingrates and people who do not show gratitude, they forget that anything can be easily taken from anyone. Is the job a very good one? Yes. Infact it's a dream job, but under such conditions with someone as impossible to please? I think I'll pass and hope to get better future opportunities, but now, I need to continue rehabilitation and my recovery process.

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You don't need the stress... Some jobs you can make a good living but doing so really is hard on your health and blood pressure. She may need money and use that as an excuse for her bad behavior, but one thing she doesn't seem to understand is one simple principle. You don't kill the golden goose... If you don't keep an important employee happy and treat them poorly they will not stay and put up with stressful work environment. I think you are making the right move, less stress for you and you can take what you learned onto a better job!

Oh I have made up my mind to leave the job, the market has been stagnant with alt season, if not I'd have quit a month ago, or immediately I got sick. She understands that you don't kill the Golden goose, she just can't help with the desperation and bad behavior. Unfortunately for me, I can't put up with a 9 to 5 at the moment, and bills has to be paid

That reminds me most of the work bosses... Money, money, money they never have enough even if you gotta die to get them money... She will come begging you in January, then you can settle your conditions... You could apply for someone else or do it on your own when you are back on track

I will not be going back in January, I made up my mind already, the plan is set, wait for alt season will December and then quit completely. Yeah, I know she'll have learned her lesson, but unfortunately it'll be too late. It's all just money money money

Some people only see money and forget the human side of things. It's a better choice to protect your health and peace of mind and the right opportunities will come with people who truly value teamwork

Now a days we cannot expect loyalty from people who don't know the meaning of it. Those kind of people always look for a reason to make cash out of others hardwork. It looks like there is no peace of mind with your work and health. Hope you get your health good and as for wealth you will do great.

seriously man you should understand how the gender generally behaves it's just a nature, nagging, complaining, always talking money but with little effort or know how to,...

I think you should weigh the odds, if you can go solo why not or look for another partner but if it's something that will cost you your own line of earning I don't know how it is but I think you should think things through

Better will come for you...I strongly believe that

This world is filled with ungrateful people they don't care even if someone dies while working for them and that's not fair at all, am so sorry, she doesn't even know what tomorrow will offer her, money is not everything in life, a good name is more important.

Hey! You don’t need to quit the job…
People show their real face in our bad time … don’t be upset and just focus on your health 😀😀

There are a lot of people like that, and that is how life is. It sucks when they are only after money, but I would wait until the alt season peaks before quitting. As much as you might not like the job, it does pay the bills. Of course, your health comes first.

Having a bad and ingrate work partner can really be a bone in one's neck, especially those who go ahead not to appreciate your presence and effort. Such work isn't favourable when one's health and convenience is at stake.

I hope you get a good opportunity by then. Your health is what matters and nothing should add to it from someone who isn't willing to understand you.

I guess she doesn't know what she's got until its gone. Some people learn the hard way, she is probably one of them. Unfortunately gratitude is a virtue that many don't have. Glad you are moving on without her and I am wishing you the very best and God's blessing for opportunities you never imagined possible :}